The Companionship is in our faces all the time. You take a walk through the park and pass a young couple cuddling under a tree. You go out for a drink and see a group of friends laughing over inside jokes. You go out to the supermarket and see a married couple holding hands, discussing what to cook for dinner. If you’re single or don’t have any close friends nearby, being confronted by all of these everyday interactions can make you feel sad and alone. Fortunately, what may seem like a very difficult time can be one of the most rewarding. By spending time alone, you learn more about your true self and how to work towards ultimate happiness.
There is a lot of challenges are come and go in social media. This is the world of competence. Everyone wants special. It is a human desperate desire to feel like a celebrity nowadays.
The one challenge that is quite famous is #bottlecapchallenge, in which you have to open the cap of the bottle by various methods. Many celebrities and ordinary people do this accurately.
Once a turtle accepted the challenge and have done gracefully, you could see the image above. So, we should support his cause because we live in a world of symbiotic relationship. If we care for something that better reactions happen with the other side. Otherwise, we know the consequences.
There is a history associated with this Nike #cortez sneakers.It is with me for more than 5 years and I am surely in love with it.
What is the mental model? We all have some perspective, view or different insight of the outer world in our inner world.
I am talking about our brain. The brain is the most complex things in our body that make us different from the world. The mental model that we create in our head is the result of our environment, situation, peers, family etc. That’s why in this world no two-person tackle every situation in the same way.
How do our brain works? The brain works like an associative model. It could associate the situation to the model into our world. There are a lot of details are present in the world. We are unable to store everything in our brain. The brain simplifies complex things into simple one. Due to which, we can understand the things so easily.
So, how to make a strong brain model. Let us suppose you are a biologist, you view the world into the form of evolution. I am an engineer, so my view is in the form of system, the psychologist sees the world as an incentive. So, a different person has a different perspective of the world.
If you see the problems only from one point of view.It may be possible, you directly follow the blind spot.So how can we make things better?
In my opinion, read different articles.See the things from others point of view and the most ilpprtamg thing is to respect the perspective.Once you master one, go for another.From this method, you can easily understand the world better that yesterday.
Never stop learning.Enjoy life.
There are a lot of going into the world at every moment. The good thing for us, we could easily find all the information about the activities that are going across the world.
But, what do you think? Is it a curse or blessings for us? I think, there is always a trade-off between the two.
The internet is the most revolutionized elements that ever created by humans, but we all know that it is full of irrelevant and unnecessary information. Every second, we are bombarded with lots of notification from apps that are installed on our phone. We have the habit of navigating through different ideas all the time. Due to this, our attention span decreases day by day. We are unable to do the deep work.
For the long run, it is so harmful to us, because if you don’t know. I will tell you the attention span of humans is just 16 seconds. After that, our mind distracted to other activities. So, what to do?
The best thing that we can do is to limit our attention. I am not saying stop using all the apps that make our life simple. However, I just want to say that, always choose the best one and leave the rest. You could easily do this. The only skill that is needed for this, research. Use different sources. Then, choose the one that you like consciously.
Therefore, my point is this don’t spend your precious time and energy to the things that don’t matter. Narrow down your focus and do your best shot to the things that actually matter in your life. Your relationships, work that you love, the side hustle that you always wanted to do. But couldn’t stop due to lack of time. Actually, you have enough time, if you do the right things. I am going to close this by the quotes of Seneca,’ time is the function of work you do, it can stretch if you do the right things. Time is never less. It expands or contracts by the way, how do you use it.’
So, it’s my humble opinion to all. You have to live once. But if you live it correct, then one is enough.
This key ring is in my bike from last 2 years and I am love it.
It shows that we are own hero.We choose path for ourselves.I don’t like the idea that someone else control my life.
So,I am always charge of my life.This life is 100% my responsibility.
The burnout,the phase in our life in which our work motivation falls to zero.
Even a simplest daily tasks become burden for us. Bathing,brushing,cleaning etc.We are feels like dizzy all the time.Our procrastination levels are on peak.The world look like a fireball and we are plastic bottle there.It fires us anytime.
Burnout may be days,weeks or even years long,depends on the type of situations of your life.
So,what to do in the phase of burnout.I will give you some steps to overcome it as some as possible.
- Take cold showers challenge
Use 2-minutes rule
Track your activities
Cold shower challenge
It is scientifically proven that our brain comes in fighting stage,when we bath from cold water.The benefit of this is that we become alert and easily go back to our work.
Use 2-minute rule
It says that do the small works first,without thinking too much.Figure out what you could done in small time.Then,do it as soon as possible.Through this,you can easily do a lot of work.
Track your activities
Take a journal or Todo list like apps.Track your activities.When you do something,check the box.It gives you some kind of satisfaction.
Follow any of these and you are not in burn-out again in your life.
If you see my personality types. It is more biased towards introversion rather than extroversion.People are always thinking that I am a extrovert kind of guy, because of my frankness on social situations.But, the truth is that I am not.
I love to spend my time on thinking about deep topics like introspection of life, how universe was created, how life was initiated or all kinds of weird stuff.
I love to read books on different topics.From thriller to romance to biography and all sort of non fiction book.
I am also a full time coder.So, I spend almost 60% of time on writing.It may be code or content writing for different purposes.
I created a lot of websites and all that kind of stuff.But, behind the scene, as a coder for different client.I also wrote a lot of contents on different topics but for some others clients.
Eventually,I am going to start my blogging journey from here.Here,I will write my views on different topics.
I think ,it is going to be a very fantastic journey.
Thanks for joining me!
Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton